“I want to get back with my ex!” So you and your partner just broke up and you can’t stand being away from them. It’s been weeks and months and you really want to hear from them again. All you can think about is hearing their voice or reading an email sent from your ex.
A breakup is always difficult to deal with. If your goal is “I want to get back with my ex,” then you should follow the breakup rules.
· The very important No Contact rule
· Never plead, never beg, never appear desperate
· Never let your emotions get the better of you
· Improve yourself and regain your confidence
· Take it slow, apologize for your mistakes, and don’t pressure your ex
These rules are essential if you want to “get my ex back.” But first, you and your ex are going to have to be in speaking terms again. How can you rebuild your relationship if you don’t communicate?
Wouldn’t it be great if your ex tried to contact you too? What if your ex decided to pick up the phone or send you a text message or email? This isn’t impossible. With a few tips and techniques, you can get your ex to call you or send you a message.
Don’t be discouraged if your phone calls and messages were ignored. Maybe your ex just doesn’t know what to say to you yet. It’s been awhile after all, and they might feel a little awkward and unsure about what to say to you. If your ex broke up with you, then it will be especially hard for them to call you back. They’re unsure on how you would react.
In order to have more time to reflect on your relationship, you can give it a couple more weeks. Don’t give up if your ex doesn’t immediately return your calls. This will also give you more time to think about your mistakes and how you can fix it.
If you want your ex to call you back, then you need to:
· Avoid calling them every minute of everyday because this will only annoy them
· Your ex will never call you back if you keep leaving messages on their answering machine of if you keep sending him or her emails
· You are giving your ex more power and control if they sense that you can’t live without them
· Don’t make up stories or excuses just to get your ex to call you back because it’s just plain pathetic
· You can expect your ex to call you back if your message has no hidden agenda such as “please let me know if you would like to have your stuff back.”
Another way to get your ex to contact you is through your mutual friends. Hang out with them and ask around. Ask them how your ex is doing and show them that you are also doing fine. Share what’s been going on in your life and if you’re up to something new.
“I want to get back with my ex!” Well then try to follow the tips and remember that our mutual friends can spread the word and your ex will find out how you are doing. They will be curious then especially if they find out that you’re doing well. If your ex senses that things are pretty much normal with you then they might consider calling you to catch up.