To gain a mans desire and trust, a woman has to have a fine blend of maturity and playfulness. If a woman is to expect an engagement ring accompanied by a marriage proposal and commitment, then she needs to show him that she can take care of him in a mature way but also can be fun and playful and make him smile and laugh.
When a man loves a woman he talks to her father, goes shopping, gets down on one knee and pulls out a fabulous rock to place on his beloved’s left ring finger… but it does not always happen like that. Many women find that they are in relationships that are a dream come true, with the simple exception that he just won’t propose, which leaves them wondering how to get him to propose.
One way to get him to propose is to stop being the nice girl; get rid of that hope chest with all those place settings, gown photos and guest lists inside. Men want confident women who are mature and self-assured enough to leave him wanting more. The minute you no longer need him to take care of you is when he is going to realize that if he doesn’t snap you up – stat – someone else will. Men love confidence, and a woman with plenty of it is the sexiest of all.
When a woman really wants to know how to get him to propose, she needs to learn one thing: it can not be all work and no play. No man wants to marry someone who is always stressed and serious. He wants to marry someone who is interesting and fun. So sometimes you just have to put down the apron and the roasted chicken (you know, the one you picked up on your way home from work already cooked and stuck it on your pan, in your oven to pass off as your own) and get out of the house. Buy him tickets to the big game, head to the park to ride bikes together or throw a ball around. Whatever you do, make it interesting.
Men don’t want to marry the 1950s version of a woman; they want to marry one who can carry on a stimulating conversation, have some fun and still make him a wonderful hot dinner, ready for him after a long day at work. This helps him feel like a man. When he finds that woman, he’s not going to hesitate to propose.
Take care of your mans needs and he will take care of your needs by making you his wife.