Trying to reconnect with someone that you are no longer in touch with can be hard to do, especially if that someone just happens to be an ex girlfriend that you are hoping to be able to reconcile with. I don’t want to get your hopes up too high, sometimes no matter what you do, it’s just not going to happen. Of course, that is not the case for all situations, as there are plenty of real life examples of couples breaking up and losing touch with one another and then getting back together and being totally happy.
As long as your expectations are realistic and you know what you are doing, then you probably do have a pretty good chance at being able to reconcile with an ex girlfriend.
Here are 3 tips that can help you make that happen so that you can be one of those success stories:
1) You need to make sure that when you do get in contact with your ex girlfriend again, you do not bring up old arguments with her.
You can do yourself a lot of harm and make it so that you have no chance at all of being able to reconcile with an ex girlfriend if you rehash old arguments that you had with her. Let them be and leave them in the past. Even if you are tempted to do so, remember what you are really after and you should be able to forget about them.
2) Get your ex girlfriend to hang out with you casually before you try to get romantic with her.
Since some time has probably passed since you last saw your ex girlfriend, it’s better to get her to hang out casually just so that you really do have the chance to reconnect with her. You can try to be romantic and take things to that next level at another time.
3) You need to get to know her again.
When time has passed since you and her were last an item, you are going to have to try and get to know her again. She may have changes a little since you and her dated and you want to make sure that you are still attracted to her. Plus, it never hurts to make an ex girlfriend feel brand new by taking an interest in what she has been up to since the two of you parted ways.