We all assume that sex is all fun and happy times; sometimes it seems the whole world revolves around who’s doing it with whom, and no one ever seems to tire of talking about it.
But what if sex has lost its thrill? Are you finding that you can easily live without it? The problem might be that you’re making one (or more) of these mistakes in your sex life. But don’t worry! We’re here to fill you in on where you might be going wrong – and to help you get back on the right track to super fun sexy times!
1. Only Having Sex At Night
We know. You lead a busy life with a full schedule and you just don’t have time for anything. That’s why sex only comes as an afterthought, after Letterman’s monologue, right before you fall asleep.
It’s understandable, especially for those with kids and demanding jobs. But sometimes you’ve just got to shake things up – wake your husband up 15 minutes early, or send the kids to Grandma’s house for lunch and grab a little afternoon delight to shake up your routine.
2. Only Having Sex In Bed
This almost goes hand in hand with the first one – but if all your sex takes place in the bed, sooner or later it will start to get boring with the same old positions and then sleeping after. Take it out of the bedroom and try something new.
That might mean the shower, a kitchen counter or the living room floor. Or if you’re really looking to shake things up, get out of the house completely! Try a department store dressing room, in the backseat of the car in a parking lot or at the beach in the water!
3. Not Using Lubrication
If you haven’t been using lubrication during sex, you’re really depriving yourself from enhanced pleasure during sex. It’s an absolute necessity to truly enjoy sex – especially for women over 30.
Next time you’re standing in the drug store, grab a tube and add it to your purchases! You may want to experiment with different brands and styles – there’s no doubt you’ll find one you love and you’ll wonder why you waited so long to try it!