Every woman loves clitoral stimulation because although women are capable of experiencing not only clitoral orgasms, but also vaginal, multiple, squirting and anal orgasms – most women have only ever had CLITORAL orgasms.
Therefore, most women think that clitoral stimulation is necessary to achieve orgasm. And whilst that isn’t the truth, it is important that as a man, you get the most basic orgasm of all working for your woman… the clitoral orgasm.
Some men struggle to find the clitoris. If you are in that bracket – go read an anatomy book.
This article is for men who know where the clitoris is, but are not sure of how to best stimulate it.
Here’s the thing…
The BIGGEST MISTAKE most men make when stimulating the clitoris is doing it too soon, before their women are ready. If you make this mistake, you are likely to annoy your woman or even cause her pain.
Not what you want.
You want to give her an orgasm, right?
Good.
In that case, keep reading…
In order to give your woman a clitoral orgasm you must make sure she is hot, WET and horny before you touch her clitoris. If you dive in and start rubbing it before she is hot, wet and horny – that’s when you’ll annoy her or cause her pain.
Sadly many average guys make this mistake all the time. Don’t fall into the same trap. Don’t be in such a rush to ‘get inside her’.
Slow down and enjoy the entire sexual adventure!
The way to get her really hot, wet and horny (and desperate for you to touch her clitoris) is to give her awesome FOREPLAY.
For example, let’s imagine that you are going to give your woman ORAL SEX. Instead of getting between her legs and immediately licking her clit, instead, do this:
– Slowly lick her inner thighs, all the way up and down. Take your time and watch her get turned on
– Then gently lick and suck her outer labia
– Then lick the entrance to her vagina
– Then lick her perineum
By this point, she will be very wet and sexually excited and BEGGING YOU for more. As in – she’ll be begging to feel your tongue on her clitoris.
At this point you have two options:
– Lick her clitoris and ‘get her off’
– TEASE HER a little more and build up her sexual excitement and anticipation even further (my personal favorite)