You probably already know quite well that it’s not enough to just feel like you want to be able to meet women. If that was all that it took, I don’t think that there would be too many guys who felt like it was hard to meet someone. However, we all know that this is not the case. Most single men do feel like it can be quite hard to meet a woman that they have good chemistry with and that are exactly the kind of woman that they would like to be in a relationship with. While you may have a hard time figuring out where you need to go to meet a woman, it does not have to be that hard at all.
Sometimes it is the simple choices of where to go that guys overlook that tend to produce decent results. Of course, you always have to keep in mind that no matter what, you are still going to have to be able to approach women if you want to be able to get a date. You can’t just go to the right place and end up with a girlfriend, you are going to have to make good conversation and you are going to have to be able to make her feel like there is some chemistry there between you and her.
Here are 5 choices for meeting women that you may want to look into, because you can get decent results if you try:
1) College campuses.
This is really only good if you are attending the college or a nearby one or are at least in the right age range. No one wants to see a 50 year old guy creeping around the campus, but if you are still in your early twenties, it can be a good option. Whether it is going to an athletic event on campus or a party, you should be able to find quite a few single women that you can get to know a bit better. Just don’t forget that you need to be able to make that first move most of the time.
2) Outdoor concerts and festivals.
These are great places to meet women who dig the same kind of music that you do, and so, you know that you can do things together that you both are going to enjoy. What’s great about the outdoor concerts and festivals, is that people are much more open to mingling with one another as opposed to an indoor concert. You also know that you have something that you can talk about to open a conversation, because at the very least you can talk about the music that is being played.
3) Themed parties.
If you have ever gotten an invitation to a party that revolved around a certain theme, that can be a good place to meet a woman. Plus, you usually get to play a character of some sorts, so that can be good for guys who tend to be on the shy side. Just like with any other party, you need to be social and outgoing, because most women don’t get attracted to the guy who is standing by himself in the corner when everyone else is having a good time.
4) Specific dating sites.
There are some smaller dating sites that are specific to certain types. I have seen ones that cater to geeks, ones that cater to certain religious denominations and all other things. The one thing that you do need to be aware of with these smaller dating sites is that they might not have too many options. They might be so small that there are only a few women on there that are within 50 miles of where you are. So, that is one drawback that you do need to keep in mind.
5) Political events.
This is good for you if the political opinions that a woman you are dating are really important. If you don’t care too much about what her political leanings are, then this may not be your place to go. However, for guys that really do want to be able to talk politics with a woman that they are in a relationship with, this may be a good option to go for.