It’s easy to forget that we are working from a position of strength when trying to get back an ex. In other words, our strength is in the fact that we know them. we know their likes and dislikes. We know what kind of clothes they like you to wear, what colognes they like, where they like to hang out and the things they enjoy doing in their spare time.
If you were trying to get someone new to notice you, you would have to try several different things to get their attention because you don’t know them and so you don’t know what they like.
On the other hand, you know your ex. You know which flowers are her favorite or which team he likes to support. You know them intimately and that is your strength which you can use to your advantage. And even though you have the disadvantage of having already broken up, that doesn’t mean it’s over for good. Everyone makes mistakes, and in most cases, they can be rectified.
You have a lot of advantages in your court, so don’t give up. Millions of couples around the world find a way to mend their broken relationships and you can too. All you have to do is convince your partner that you deserve another chance and that you are willing to do what it takes to make your relationship work. There is no doubt that honesty is the best policy. You are not a child and this is not a playground, so don’t play games. Don’t try hurtful things like trying to make your ex jealous. Trying to hurt someone only shows a lack of respect for their feelings and that is definitely not the way to get them back.
How to have a successful relationship is unfortunately not a subject taught in school. If we were lucky, we had parents who stayed together and showed us by example what a happy relationship is like, but many times that is not enough. That is why you can find shelves full of books on relationships in bookstores. There has probably been a book written about any question you may have had about your relationship. How to meet a man or a woman, how to keep them after you meet them, how to make a relationship better, how to make a relationship work, etc.
But no matter how many books you read on the subject, if you don’t read the right ones, you won’t become a relationship expert. Reading the right material is extremely important. Before reading the advice of the so-called “experts” make sure that other people have been able to get their ex back by following their advice.
When looking for a book or course on the subject, don’t fall for the first one that promises the world but pay attention to those that have proof in testimonies of other couples who have reunited and become a happy couple again. Help is out there, you just need to find it.