Some men may never commit, and others just aren’t ready by a long way. On the other hand, there are men that can’t wait to get married. But, if you’re reading this, the chances are your man doesn’t fall into either category. He’s far more likely to be on a sliding scale between the two, and you have the ability to move him in the direction of marriage.
Men aren’t complicated; you just have to convince him that being married to you will make his life a whole lot better. But, you’ll never achieve that with words, it’s going to take actions.
This is your strategy, eliminate the negatives and accentuate the positives. We’ll start with the negatives.
Men fear giving up their boyhood things. They can’t imagine life without them. This could mean anything from computer games to beers with the boys. Write a list of all the things he likes to do without you, and never show any negativity towards them. But let him know that under no circumstances will you tolerate him being unfaithful to you, while he is out doing his own thing.
A lasting relationship will involve compromise on both parts. If your boyfriend really enjoys and looks forward to nachos, beers and basketball with his 2 closest friends, Fred and Mark, on Sunday afternoons, then let him enjoy his afternoon with his friends. You can plan this time as your time to visit your parents or do some shopping that you wanted to do. Maybe this would be your time to have a couple glasses of wine with your girlfriends and discuss thoughts and ideas.
Next, work on the positives. He’s your boyfriend, so let’s assume he finds you attractive. You make an effort to look good when you go out, and other guys envy him. That’s good, so keep it up. But, make the same effort when it’s just the two of you. Being with a beautiful woman every day of his life is an offer no man can ever refuse. Some sexy lingerie is an eye opener for any man!
You can get a sexy pair of black thi-hi’s and a babydoll for about 30 dollars online, surprise him some Saturday night. A man will adore you for doing this type of thing for him.
So, now he sees he’s not losing anything, and he’s gaining everything, the job should be done. All you have to do is let it all sink in. Don’t panic, if he truly loves you and wants to marry you, he will propose.
I write my articles with my own life experiences and the knowledge gained by talking to hundreds of people about what attracted them to their life partner and compelled them to commit to marriage.