The Art of the Orgasm
Talk to your Partner
Exercise and Fitness
Take it Slow
Open up Your Mind
Masturbation Experimentation
A significant amount of research has shown that some people don’t reach an orgasm as often as others do. A much smaller fraction of people are unable to reach orgasm, for one reason or another. If you are having trouble finding your incredible explosion, just know that you are probably capable with a little knowledge and practice.
Exercise and Fitness
The first step in utilizing your capabilities is to find a way to regularly exercise. Sex and arousal depend solely on blood flow, and by exercising your muscles and improving your cardiovascular/respiratory systems you are maximizing your potential to endure and build-up your orgasm.
People with heart conditions are advised against going, and going, and going during sex, but with a little exercise and perseverance, the average person can definitely change their sex lives for the better with exercise.
Open up Your Mind
Sex is not about tradition, nor is it about any standards or expectations you might’ve been taught or dreamt up in your head. Sex is about discovering, loving, and pleasing another person, as well as yourself. It has no boundaries but you. Not only is it the reason you exist, but it feels good, and it’s supposed to. Many will tell you that there’s nothing better than sex, and if you can’t agree, then you must open your mind.
Whatever you may be doing with your partner, is probably not anything substantial, unless of course you two are erotically hip and sound. You may never know where sex will take you, and it’s all about experimentation and straying away from yourself for a while. You can be anyone you want, especially in the bedroom, behind closed doors. Learn to recognize and appreciate the importance and power of sex, and what it can do for you.
Masturbation Experimentation
As long as you’ll be exploring your inner potential, you may as well give yourself a little hand every once in while to see what really makes you tick. Masturbation is considered by many medical professionals to be completely normal and very common. Many people will claim that “it isn’t for them”, but have they really tried it?
Find out what kind of rhythm and stroke is pleasing to you, and may find that you’ve been doing things wrong all along! There have been women who did not discover the magic of their clitoris until they were in their 30’s; they merely had sex in bland, ordinary ways and did not feel the need or want to stimulate themselves. Once you find out what you like, you’ll have an easier time…
Talking to Your Partner
Once you know what you like, you needn’t feel shameful in talking to your partner about what you like in the bedroom. Tell them what it is you want them to do, or better yet, tell them what things they do that you really like. This will help educate them about you sexually and is fundamental in understanding each other in the sheets.
Know that your man won’t always know what to do, so it’s up to you to direct him and be a little bossy. Mastering the art of the orgasm can have a lot to do with what your partner’s doing to you. You can’t always get there by yourself.
Taking it Pace by Pace
Sometimes, fast and hard just isn’t right. Other times, sensual and slow is just not enough. There is always a medium for pace and tempo, and that goes for anything from foreplay to penetration.
It’s always nice to start off slow, evoking pleasure and sensation through touching and light kissing. Being able to read your partner is important in knowing how to build a proper climax. Listen to their sounds as the pace quickens and you’ll know when to throw them over the edge and send them blasting into heaven. Don’t wear them out of breath; when it’s time to slow down, slow it down. The important thing is for it to be a rollercoaster ride so that the orgasm builds and builds and therefore the results are more impressive.
It can take years to figure out what makes you tick, and how to work with your body to get the most out of your orgasm. But then again, you may find out rather quickly what you can do with your man to help you reach that high state of sexual euphoria, a state every sexy tigress deserves.