The issue of unrequited love has long been a hot button for many guys as they try to figure out why a woman that they adore does not seem to feel the same way about them. It could be a woman you are just friends with, or it could be an ex girlfriend. Whomever it is, you know that it doesn’t feel good to know that you care about her and it does not seem like she feels the same way about you. While you may not be able to change that, it’s still good to know why that might be so that you don’t find yourself in that position again.
Here are 4 possibilities to ponder if you are wondering why she doesn’t love you when that is the way that you feel about her:
1) You’ve tried to rush things instead of letting things happen at a more natural pace.
For some guys, the main problem ends up being that they are in a rush to fall in love and that fast pace is not really what the woman wants. There is such a thing as moving too fast and if you give off the impression that you are doing that, it can end up making a woman lose her attraction for you. Of course, this really only applies to an ex girlfriend situation.
2) You haven’t done enough to trigger feelings of attraction inside of her.
This is one of those scenarios that really applies to situations where the woman you are in love with happens to see you as more of a friend. If you don’t make her feel attracted to you, if there is no romantic connection in her eyes, then you really cannot expect to be seen as anything more than just a friend of hers.
3) You don’t know how to make a woman feel excitement around you.
This can apply to both situations, an ex girlfriend and a woman that you have fallen into the friend zone with. You have to be able to make a woman feel some kind of excitement when she is around you if you have any hope at all of being able to make her feel the same way about you that you feel about her.
4) You are afraid to make your move and ask her out on a date.
This of course will only apply to those situations where you are just friends or acquainted with a woman and you don’t know how to make her feel the same way about you. If you don’t have the courage to ask her out, how can you expect her to have any strong feelings towards you?