Jealousy is an emotion that most people experience at one time or another. It could be a friend, a family member, spouse, boyfriend or girlfriend. Most extreme jealous people turn on their spouse or lover using terrible verbal language or in many cases getting physical.
The jealous person fears losing their loved one to someone else and they go into a rage which can cause harm to the one they’re attacking. Jealousy destroys a relationship from the abuse their partner had to endure from rampage episodes.
They get defensive causing fear to their partner destroying their relationship. Many women had to revert to shelters to hide from their abusive husband or boyfriend. A jealous person fears the worse, seeing their spouse or lover looking at someone else not paying total attention to them.
They only see their spouse looking for someone else, not the love and devotion they have for them. The wife keeps herself looking nice for her husband, but he sees her looking good for another guy. If she is late coming home from work, or stops at the grocery store and was in line too long, she has to pay the price for it.
Some will follow their spouse or lover to see where she goes thinking she is meeting someone. She has a miserable life with this person and has no choice but to abandon the relationship. He finds out and hunts her down convincing her he will change and never cause her harm again.
She gives in to his wining just to experience jealous rages all over again. She suggests counseling but he thinks nothing is wrong with him believing she caused all the abuse. After leaving him then coming back makes him worse as his anger heats up more often making him more dangerous to be around.
She has to get out for good, so she makes her plans carefully and eventually gets far away from him breaking all ties. No man or woman should have to endure mental or physical abuse from a jealous person. It’s hard to break off a relationship with an insanely jealous person; therefore she lives a life of misery.
When you start dating someone, watch their behavior and if they act out of control or ask you weird questions like; do you know that guy, or why are you looking at that guy, or tries to get you to marry him soon after you meet, you should get him out of your life before it’s too late.
There are more ways to see if a person is jealous, but these few are red flags. There are nice people for you without all the jealousy, because it always destroys a relationship.